Dress Shopping for a Rehersal Dinner

As I have mentioned in previous posts of my best childhood friends is getting married he is getting married next next.  I decided to buy a dress for the rehersal dinner.  So I went dress shopping these are the two dresses that I have decided on and can not decide which one I like better.  My goal was to look nice without looking to trashy or to much like a grandma.  I bought both of the dresses after trying them on and asked my friends which ones they liked and they ended up refering me to their girlfriends and wives.  I swear they are no help.  Jennifer liked the torquiose one and Christy liked the red one.